Honesty

Honesty is a Blessing Part 2

Honesty amongst friends is a beautiful thing. It brings wit and humour even in dark situations. If you don’t have friends, you can do this with you need to surround yourself with some.

A friend was going to holiday in Japan with her husband, but it was possible the relationship would end before this event. I asked what might happen if the relationship exploded before the planned holiday? Quickly suggesting another friend and I would go with if she needed the company. There was no mention to Pony Up some finances, but I like to imagine its implied. Alas, the relationship survived as you would hope so.

A catch up with my plus one, that the friend was on the arranged vacation and plus one stated “It should have been us!”

Oh My God! And I laughed.

I don’t even have a passport right now as I let it lapse back in ’04 and clearly the right people went on that holiday, but it could have been us.

Honesty is a Blessing – Part 1

I made a statement to my carer today that I think I’ve already offended a new neighbour. She bluntly asked what I had done? I snorted a laugh at her not even looking at her. I told her it’s not that I had gone out of my way to do so it would have been unintentional. I then played out how much easier it would be if I actually intended to offend people. I mean, I’d just go outside, point to the first person I saw and ask…” You know what you looked like when you left home today?” And you still left!

A snort laugh I then shared with my carer, then further examples. Same tone, I then suggested they would definitely be the days I should self-isolate. Don’t answer that! Not a question, apply filter!