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Some People Deserve to be Named and Shamed

Published February 16, 2026 by helentastic67

Some People Deserve to be Named and Shamed

The proof is in the pudding. I often think the old terms and references might be lost if we don’t keep them alive by using them. Who thought this post I would be naming and shaming somebody? I still might.


The proof is in the pudding, while alluding to yeast being a raising agent. It’s a good reference to mean someone doing what they said they intended. Someone says they will do something; we take it as good; they will follow through and you only know once the deed is done. And the more they dilly-dally and piss-arse around and it isn’t done? The so-called pudding is not done. So, to speak.


Is everyone confused yet?

OK, I will context by stating since moving, I’ve had extra furniture to sell, items I no longer need or want. Furniture I’ve replaced with something I plan to keep forever and have it store things and make a statement. So, I’ve put items on the Place that is the Market. Are we all still following where this is going?

So, I put a thing, let’s call it a box? On the place that is a market. If you are not familiar. You can put your (already regretting this term) Box on the market, with measurements, a cost, a vague location and requirements on how you prefer to exchange said “box” or item for cash. And in a perfect world let’s say Jane? She messages to say, Hey! I’m curious about the box, can I come see it, give you the cash, to take it off your hands. Can you help or do I need to bring my own muscle? You may even hear from a Luke, a Maria, a Fred or help, a Gary, Mary or a Susie. All of these may be given instructions of a location close to your location, before breaking FULL PRIVACY boundaries and people may not have the appropriate method, vehicle, muscle to take said “box” I hope you all realise, the box is an item of furniture? Mmm, who thought it was something else? No, it’s furniture. Definitely.


After some back and forth with multiple people, one lovely lady coming from an hour away to look and measure the “box” She kept eyeing the item I’d bought to replace the “box” poor thing. I could see she kept looking at it. AND I laughed at her and told her I understood. I said the measly $10 (It was more, but as an example?) I’d asked for it wouldn’t put a dint in what the new purchase (the box!) had cost me. Whoever she was hard pressed to see if I would take $7.50 for it before she committed to coming to get it. Also, being very insistent getting my address. She did not get given my address and overnight she decided it was not the right size for her needs. So, annoying this lady.


But not as annoying as Jane, who several weeks after her original contact and no follow up. She messaged to inform me he was a “Genuine Buyer!” I’m sorry, did I have the shit attitude? When she reached out again, she mentioned all the other places in Melbourne she had to get to before getting to me to buy my “box” I suggested I didn’t need to know all her movements, only when I would be seeing her and that she would bring the required cash as actual cash.

The following day, the last day stated to collect and complete the transaction, Jane messaged me to inform me she would not be coming and that I seemed more interested in the $10. Then she stated her insult that I was “Uneducated and rude!” Um? Do I seem uneducated to you?


I don’t know who she thought she was? However, I went to reply with a polite but firm “You are misinformed and rude. Good day!” But she had blocked me. What a rhymes witty punt? Think I used the word “Cow” although that insults animals that are referred in some countries and have four stomachs. Worthy creatures indeed. So, I reported her and blocked her.


Oh, just an FYI, the lovely lady was Jane. The punt was Ann, the proof was definitely not in the pudding, but she proved herself something else.


I’m not a fan of using the word that rhymes with punt, but this seemed like an appropriate time to use it. What an awful human being. She didn’t deserve the item in question.

I guess people get what she deserves? Until, eventually when it finds its next home it will mean to be. I just don’t understand why people have to make it so hard?



I’m Still Here and Making Pudding

Published January 11, 2026 by helentastic67

I’m Still Here and Making Pudding

Feeling really flat right now. You know those days it’s all too much and people that should love you don’t pick up what you’re putting down. It’s normally these days I don’t blog because I feel it’s a little too raw. So, I can’t make any good humour about things. Just appreciate I’m still here. I’m doing what I can, putting one foot in front of another planning to die healthy one day, a long time from now.

I’ll likely have more friends and beautifully kind people around me than those related to me. It’s weird at 53, the things I ended up being good at, even one-handed. 

Last week I made two puddings the same day. Baked one that day, baked the other the next. Despite not all of Said-Puddings being out of my home, I made another this week. Some of the pudding after trying to deliver to its intended target, twice landed at the post office with the lovely ladies that always are kind and sweet to me. That’s not actually part of their job but I like to reward people with treats I make with love. Just for being who they are. 

A friend took the time to visit yesterday while in Melbourne, was in my home while family dropped in for ten whole minutes. Five of which was spent criticizing me for my life choices, etc. She took me for dinner and while she then used public transport to get the two hours home, she kindly took some pudding and muled some to a friend that lives out near her. 

Got feedback online late today from family about the expired used by dates on foodie treats, ungrateful the lot of them. No thanks for the delicious lemon tart I considered to get for them from my favourite cafe, costing me more than $10, I got myself one also and shared it with my friend. 

I got a message from my friend tonight simply stating feedback on the bread-and-butter pudding. We had touched base earlier today about her arriving safely home and her car starting. For once I got to bed before she got home. Her feedback simply stating, “Your pudding was divine!” 

If I could have everything else in life be as easy and productive as my pudding production, I would be a very happy woman. But none of that it seems in in my control.

About a month ago I arrived at my beauticians with a small container of my pudding and I put it in her hands at her front door. She works from home, she exclaimed immediately “It’s still warm!” I told her to take it to her kitchen and eat a spoonful. She came back a minute later with the washed container in her hands. She had inhaled it, then she stated she had half in one spoonful and she couldn’t leave the rest. Never is there a better compliment.

So, can I tell humans related to me if they can’t eat something with a lot of sugar in it, past its used by date to toughen up and eat some concrete. Asking for a friend?

Today’s Lunch – 25th September 2019

Published September 25, 2019 by helentastic67

Today’s Lunch

Good Mental Health Day

Yesterday, had a nice adventure planned and by 8am the wheels fell off. My fill-in carer had rung in sick and I was asked if I wanted them to be replaced? Just imagine I do like a shower each day, so I said yes please but, my agency outsourced me to another agency, who got lost 3 suburbs away and by the time she found me it was lunchtime.

I was in the mood to hibernate. I also thought I’d make up for doing full “Person” on Saturday, I also did hours of admin sitting at my desk.  Here is Mika, her idea of helping me.

That’s right, I went out! I went up and down several times in the lift and ran into people. It’s amazing how many people you see if you keep normal hours. I was even able to help a guy who was attempting to get into the garage entrance with a slab of beer in his arms. I called to him as he was about to put it down and clicked the button for the garage gate to open. He seemed pleased and surprised.

I had been waiting for my sister to pull in to “bump in/bump out” she bought me a vacuum cleaner as mine recently died and she collected some goodies for my dad. Ok, our dad. She was going up to stay with him for a few days before going onto Canberra with our younger sister. We had lunch locally.

I did take photos but they did not work! Again! Reasons why Helen cannot do Insta. I did however make my second last bread and butter pudding Sunday night. I even had some, I normally portion and package it all up to give away. Have delivered some today and while none is going to Sydney to my administrator Noelle. She is getting a box full of goodies. Should arrive Monday?

Another crazy day, not even getting to my favourite cafe in North Fitzroy. Stayed close to my last appointment in Thornbury for lunch instead. Today’s offering a black bean pie, with a little salad and relish and medicine.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Now, off to get stabbed!

Cheers

H

Today’s Lunch – 26th December 2018

Published December 26, 2018 by helentastic67

Todays lunch

Today’s Lunch

Good Mental Health Day

Well, this week’s foodie, good mental health day post will be different again!

Merry Christmas for yesterday and today is Boxing Day so I’m not actually out at my regular haunt. I’m in the country where I visit at this time of year for a week.

Country Victoria

Our standard Christmas celebrations this year was to meet the girls from the Peninsula somewhere central for a nice lady’s lunch. My mum and younger sister drive 3.5 hours south to scoop me up and we drove into the city. This year we went to the Chocolate Buddha at Federation Square.

federation_square

I meant to take photos, I swear I did again, reasons why I shouldn’t be on Instagram! Just picture it like this. 5 ladies. 7 entrees shared, I shared my main with my mum and I shared dessert with my older sisters’ partner. It is always debated that my older sister has big eyes but a little tummy. So much teasing in her direction, hence, by sharing my desert with her partner, she actually got a fair share. I did get a photo of that!

Chocolalte Buddha 2Chocolate Buddha 1

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

We had a lovely chick as our waitstaff who was from New Zealand who we wanted to adopt. Her name is Bianca and when we were selecting the entree’s, she told us she understood our making a serious effort to make sure we had enough. She told us she was one of eight kids. she very quickly followed this announcement by explaining it was very cold in New Zealand and they are very fertile. We had dumplings, tempura pumpkin and capsicum, and other yummy things. My younger sister is very keen on ramen right now as she was overseas eating tasty goodness all of September.

Ramen

Went back to my home to pack and headed north to be informed only 20 minutes from home I was told there was no turkey to be had. (we usually do a turkey roll stuffed with fruit and nuts and such) prompting me to call out “Take me back home!”  I think the last time we had an actual turkey, my mum stated we wouldn’t do another until one of us had a husband! (The pressure, right?) And my sister has a partner of the fairer sex so that’s no help what’s so ever! Haven’t had turkey since…………

No Turkey

Skip Monday as it was spent in PJ’s, and sleeping, so on Christmas Day lunch was had at 4pm, with baked ham, roasted pork with crackling and yummy roasted vegetables. Both cranberry jelly and gravy.  After a break, some TV and a kip, we had dessert, which was this gingerbread pudding with caramel and Connoisseur ice cream, followed by a second course of dessert which is traditionally trifle in this house.

Pudding

Trifle

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Big thanks to my mum and younger sister for all the yummy food. They wouldn’t let me help. I’ll make up for it, in clean-up duty. Promise.

Cleaning up

I don’t yet have photos of just how country I am just now but to say I do NOT have mobile reception here. Like, seriously first world problem!

No phone

But another perfect example of just how country I am, within 30 minutes of arriving here and mum rummaging around in the hallway cupboard to get some bedding out I found the first huntsman. It was about a 50 cms in diameter. It was still pink, meaning it was still a baby and where there’s one there’s more. Mum came with a glass and a card to implement catch and release. Cringe. It should be mentioned huntsman spiders are rather friendly spiders, they just like to hang around on your ceiling………but in Queensland I’m told they can be as big as dinner plates. #Never living in Queensland. They won’t kill you just frighten you to death……….

Huntsman

So, doing this post late Tuesday night I’m finishing the evening with my once-yearly alcoholic drink, in the form of a little Muscat. It’s really all I drink at this time of the year. I still have a bottle of baileys in my fridge at home from two Christmas’s ago. Must finish that!

Glass of wine

Catching up on Thursday with some high school friends. Will remember to get some foodie photos then. Or I will try.

Hope you are all well fed and safe with family.

Safe Christmas
Cheers,
H